The Five-Minute Freedom Exercise That Changed Everything

Michael Barbarita • May 30, 2025

I was drowning in success.



Revenue up 34% year-over-year. Team growing quarterly. Profit margins expanding.

And I was miserable.


My "successful" business had become a prison of my own design—consuming every waking moment and eclipsing everything that mattered.


The turning point came through a simple five-minute exercise that fundamentally changed my relationship with my company:

I wrote my entrepreneurial obituary.


Not my personal obituary, but the honest assessment of what my life would look like if I continued running my business exactly as I was for the next 20 years.


The result was sobering:

  • Missed most of my children's formative experiences
  • Marriage strained by constant work pressure
  • Health deteriorated from stress and neglect
  • Wealthy on paper but impoverished in life


This brutal clarity catalyzed a complete reinvention of my approach to business optimization and cash flow management:

  1. I defined my ideal weekly schedule FIRST, blocking personal time before business obligations
  2. I calculated the minimum revenue needed for my desired lifestyle
  3. I identified all processes requiring my personal attention
  4. I systematically eliminated, automated, or delegated these functions
  5. I rebuilt our pricing and client structure around my ideal involvement level


The change wasn't instant, but it was profound.


Within a year, my working hours decreased by 58%. Our bottom line growth continued at 16% annually. My "life satisfaction score" (a metric I now track monthly) doubled.


Your business exists to create the life you want, not prevent you from living it.


If it's not serving that purpose, it's failing—regardless of what your P&L says.


Try the Five-Minute Freedom Exercise yourself. Write your entrepreneurial obituary.


Then decide if that's the life you actually want.